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Well, we’re almost halfway through January and most men who have made any new year resolution have probably shelved them already. Have you ever thought about what keeps you from doing the things you know you should be doing, and how that adversely affects your mental health, your relationships, your self-esteem?

The single major obstacle to anything a man plans to do is his vision of himself. He simply cannot commit to anything unless he knows enough about himself to accept that the commitment will be worthwhile, has meaning, and has value to him as a person and his life trajectory. You may think you are enjoying something only because it’s there and is easy; that’s not enjoyment, it’s just stone dead.

I’m going to ask you to do something: Go to a mirror and ask yourself, “Do I know you?” Chances are, if you’re very honest with yourself, you have to answer, “No. I’d like to know you but you’re as stranger.” That’s a very scary situation when you have a stranger living rent free in our skin!

There are quite a few men whom I classify as seekers; they are seeking, questioning, and on a quest to become who they are, really, whom they are meant to be. These men can be called the “chosen,” because they authentically want to become rather than the many who just sit and wait for being to come to them — and die waiting. What a waste.

Everywhere you look, someone is trying to sell something by “offering a challenge,” and men, because of toxic cultural conditioning, stereotypes, and social scripts, feel they have to take the challenge. Suckers! It’s YOU who should be challenging; you should be challenging everything. Only a warrior will challenge the status quo and rise above the mud and filth to radiance, just as the legendary lotus rises from the bottom mud through the water to emerge purest white, never contaminated by the mud. That is the symbol of the Divine Masculine Spirit we awaken in Homoerotic Yogic Tantra and the Mascul-IN-Touch℠ & Mascul-IN-Timacy℠ programs.

In homoerotic yogic Tantra a man learns how to awaken the Divine Masculine Spirit, he travels the path of self-awareness, and on that path learns surrender, trust, and acceptance of healthy vulnerability. He searches deep within himself to find his soul, his Self, his link to the cosmic. He learns the creativity that is homoerotic. He applies the principles of yogic science and philosophy in his personal and social life. Finally, he practices Tantra (तन्त्र), and through the exercises, practices, and rituals with his Beloved, his Tāntric Lover, he enters a mystical marriage, Divine Union, what we call maithuna (मैथुन). It’s transcendence, a mindset, a lifestyle.

It’s never too late to become to belong, to be longing; it’s the longing that motivates, once a man stops longing to belong and to become, he has stopped living.

So, instead of issuing a worthless challenge, I’m offering you the opportunity to explore and discover your true self. It’s not an easy task and takes a lifetime or what’s left of a lifetime, but it puts that lifetime in a very positive perspective, giving it more meaning, value, and promise.

If you have ever read the statistics on how much time a man spends online, on social media, doing absolutely nothing that actually benefits him, you were probably shocked. Well, you know how much time you actually waste surfing, searching, looking for someone who responds to you or to your online self. Rather than wake up and smell the coffee — the very people, rather the digital algorithms, you are desperately trying to attract — are all doing the same thing! They are reaching out farther and farther from their centers, begging for someone to be aware of them! It’s a desperate and hopeless road to self harm. If you can admit that you are doing the same thing, you need to do better for yourself.

Give it a try. There are no obligations during the introductory week or two; actually, there are no ‘obligations’ to anyone but yourself. Give yourself two weeks to explore Homoerotic Yogic Tantra. Over those two weeks you’ll do a couple of self-assessments to get some idea of where you are in terms of self-awareness and whether you will benefit from Homoerotic Yogic Tantra and Mascul-IN-Touch℠ & Mascul-IN-Timacy℠. The self-assessments are meant only for your eyes, so you don’t have to worry about sharing anything deeply personal; later, if and when you decide to join our community of men, I will ask you to share those assessments, but only once you are committed to the program.

During the two Introductory Weeks, I will send you basic modules for what is called solo-cultivation, exercises and practices you do on your own in order to get to know yourself. You will also receive reading material about the process and goals of Homoerotic Yogic Tantra.

Finally, you will have a number of chats and email conversations with me, Dāka Karuṇā, your personal mentor and guide, about what you are learning and how you feel about what you are experiencing.

By the end of the two week Introductory period, you will know whether you want to continue to the actual programs, and we will discuss what’s the best way to do that.

For starters, you should visit the 108 Days of Reflection and Meditation site, since self-reflection and meditation are important disciplines you will cultivate. Here on the public Homoerotic Yogic Tantra site, where you will find a treasury of information on the science, philosophy, and programs. At some point, if you are serious about your development, you will want to request access to the private Homoerotic Yogic Tantra site, which is for members only.

At some time you might want to join the Homoerotic Tantra group on LinkedIn or, if you are a Facebook denizen, the Homoerotic Yogic Tantra Facebook group. You will find updates and notices and links for new posts and articles there.

Of course, if you have any specific questions, you should contact me Dāka Karuṇā T.

(a.k.a. William) at any time.

It would be very helpful and generous if you were to leave a comment about your insights and thoughts inspired by today’s text. Please use the Comment feature below to leave your comment/remarks for us to read and reflect on.

Dāka Karuṇā T. (William)
दाक करुणा तान्त्रिक

ॐ शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः ॥
Oṃ śānti, śānti, śāntiḥ ||
Peace to you in body, heart-mind, and spirit!

Of course, if you have any questions or need personal guidance, please contact me.

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Published by Daka Karuna

I am a psychospiritual care professional working in interfaith spiritual care. After years of study and exploration I have discerned the path of interfaith, and I am concentrating on one of the most tolerant of all world spiritual traditions, Sαɳαƚαɳαԃαɾɱα, particularly the Yoga tradition, and the ℍ𝕠𝕞𝕠𝕖𝕣𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕔 𝕐𝕠𝕘𝕚𝕔 𝕋𝕒𝕟𝕥𝕣𝕒℠ system and the ᴍᴀꜱᴄᴜʟ-ɪɴ-ᴛᴏᴜᴄʜ℠ & ᴍᴀꜱᴄᴜʟ-ɪɴ-ᴛɪᴍᴀᴄʏ℠ programs , I teach sacred eroticism for men, and transcendence of toxic cultural conditioning through self-awareness, awakening, ritual and practice, and healthy relationship. I am a psychospiritual mentor/preceptor, spiritual guide, retreat master, keynote speaker, and writier but above all, I am a sensitive man, who knows the beauty of surrender and healthy vulnerability. Thank you for joining me and making this journey with me.

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