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In a recent Twitter post, a Berlin masseur offering what he calls “gay massage” asks: What would God Think?
The Berlin masseur posting the tweet writes:
“If you are thinking getting involved in any kind of spirituality, – a religion, philosophy or system – check and see what their position on sex is. I trained with Gay Love Spirit, who are dedicated to helping gay men to have a spiritual life while also celebrating sexuality.” (Embodied GMB)
What indeed would God think? What does the gay masseur think or hope that God would think? What kind of God is the god of the masseur? Does he even believe in a God?
As a theologian and professional psychospiritual care provider, these questions are certainly relevant both to me in academic terms, and very importantly, to the men the masseur is attempting to attract, as well as to the fundamental principles of Homoerotic Tantra℠:Mascul-IN-Touch℠
The masseur recommends, “If you are thinking getting involved in any kind of spirituality, – a religion, philosophy or system – check and see what their position on sex is.” That is one of the most confused statements I have read in a long while! The last time I saw something that confused, it was in a YouTube video by one JT of T4GM.
First of all, the masseur appears to have no clue what “spirituality” is, and if I am reading his statement correctly, given the syntax and grammar, he is conflating spirituality with “religion, philosophy[,] or system.” He appears to be ignorant of the teachings of most world faith and belief traditions, that is, that the biological behavior known as “sex” is a procreative activity, meant primarily for the continuation of a species, human or other. So, as an academic theologian, I have to take the risk of saying that in terms of sex, most faith and belief traditions are unanimous: sex is for reproduction.
As a proponent of homoerotic gay spirituality, I do not use the term sex precisely for that reason, and for the sake of precision. If I were to use the acronym S.E.X., which I occasionally do, I clarify that it is (1) an acronym, (2) that it has nothing to do with animal reproduction, and (3) the acronym means Spiritual Energy Exchange!
The sex our Berlin masseur is referring to is nothing more than titillation, arousal, stimulation, resulting in ejaculation and orgasm. It’s nothing more than gratification, satisfaction of an animal urge.
Reading on, the masseur claims to have “trained” with some obscure school called Gay Love Spirit (!?!) It doesn’t take a genius to find Gay Love Spirit, a London-based erotic massage school. Nor does it take a genius to understand exactly what GLS offers. Here’s how they refer to a man’s search for a partner: “There are different ways to be a successful ‘hunter’. Hunter? Hunted? Really, I don’t consider myself to be a hunted animal, someone’s prey. Nor do I consider the men I seek to be animals or prey nor do I view myself as a predator!
If that’s any indication of the Berlin masseur’s “training,” I have one thing to say: No! Thank you!
There are far too many sex workers masquerading as masseurs and receiving their training from similar organizations. What they succeed in doing is making money by misguiding unfortunate and lonely men. That’s predatory.
What’s even more outrageous is that they create a toxic stereotype and reinforce the already toxic cultural conditioning that poisons any teaching of the holiness of man-touching-man. I take personal, professional, and righteous offense when I read such rubbish because I have spent years and enormous time and treasure offering something different, something healing, something clean to my brothers!
The Berlin masseur is not alone in his predatory misinformation, and his mercenary pursuits. There are a number of such businesses appearing on Twitter and elsewhere on asocial media. What they claim to offer, as does the Berlin masseur is basically the same snake-oil chant, “helping gay men to have a spiritual life while also celebrating sexuality.” But they are not doing that! They are causing considerable damage and harm to vulnerable gay and bisexual men! By any standard, what they are doing is simply prostitution; they are simply sex workers.
Yes, “What would God think? What would God think, indeed!
Many of my readers are familiar with Homoerotic Tantra℠:Mascul-IN-Touch℠, my system and program based on traditional Tantra (तन्त्र) and Yoga (योग), their science and philosophy. In Homoerotic Tantra℠:Mascul-IN-Touch℠ no one is proselytized and there’s no preaching about a god, a system, a philosophy, much less any religion. The program does not require anyone to believe in a god nor to abandon his own prior beliefs. The spirituality is unique and natural.
If we do discuss a god, that god is the Creator. That creator created All, including gay men and their sexuality. In keeping with traditional Sanātanadharma (सनातनधर्म) , the Creator is perfect, perfectly good, and as such could not create anything evil; that includes gay men and gay sexuality. That is, in fact mainstream Tantric spirituality and doctrine. In fact, in Hinduism, there is a parable that teaches the tṛtīyaprakṛti (तृतीयप्रकृति) or the “doctrine of the third nature,” beings who were human but did not identify with being exclusively male or exclusively female; the sages called this the tṛtīyaprakṛti (तृतीयप्रकृति), the “third nature.” The spiritual and mystical teaching is that everyone embodies a masculine and a feminine principle that function as complementaries in a healthy human being. The supreme deity, Shiva, is depicted as Ardhanārīśvara (अर्धनारीश्वर).—a form of Śiva, (half male and half female), and Hindu mythology teems with gender-bending gods and goddesses!
It is unclear which “god” the Berlin masseur is referring to but it is certainly not the god of Tantra (तन्त्र), much less the Supreme Being of Homoerotic Tantra℠:Mascul-IN-Touch℠. Our “god” doesn’t waste its time “thinking” about whatever it is the Berlin masseur’s “god” has as a preoccupation. Perhaps the Berlin masseur’s god embodies the masseur’s own questions, biases, stereotypes, conditioning, etc. Historically, we find that humankind’s gods frequently embodied the people’s psychospiritual fears and their terrors.
That is not the case in Sanātanadharma (सनातनधर्म) or in Tantra (तन्त्र); our “gods” are tolerant, ethical, compassionate, blissful; that’s exactly what they think we should become.
So, “What would god think?” I have no idea, no possible answer to such a futile and useless question. I can only speak from study and experience: the god of Homoerotic Tantra℠:Mascul-IN-Touch℠ thinks we should embody the yama-s (यम) and niyama-s (नियम) principles, that we should be guided by the Kṣatriyadharma (क्षत्रियधर्म) and the truths of Sanātanadharma (सनातनधर्म) , that we should strive towards union with the Divine through all of the tools we have in our embodiedness, including the senses, the mind, and the movements of the soul. Anything else is suffering, an obstacle requiring healing.
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ॐ शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः ॥
Oṃ śānti, śānti, śāntiḥ ||
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